Mary Hayley

MARY HAYLEY, PHD

Psychoanalyst and psychotherapist

Mary Hayley graduated from the NYU Graduate School of Social Work in 1998 and began her career at a community mental health clinic. Driven by a passion for treating severe emotional disorders, she pursued advanced training at multiple psychoanalytic institutes. Her dedication culminated in earning a doctorate in psychoanalysis in 2008.

With more than two decades in private practice, Mary has studied closely with senior analysts whose mentorship has shaped her therapeutic style. Her approach is grounded in psychoanalytic depth while also being warm, practical, and supportive. Clients trust her for her ability to listen attentively, understand complex struggles, and guide them through meaningful change.

Mary Hayley

Areas of Focus

Mary provides individual, couples, and group psychotherapy, with the belief that group work can often enrich and deepen individual treatment. Her areas of expertise include:

  • Anxiety and persistent worry

  • Depression and mood-related challenges

  • Loss, grief, and major life transitions

  • Addiction and recovery support

  • Relationship difficulties and loneliness

Mary’s integrative approach combines rigorous psychoanalytic training with compassionate presence. She is committed to helping clients untangle difficult emotions, improve relationships, and move toward greater resilience and well-being.

OUR SERVICES

Compassionate Therapy Tailored To Your Needs

Depression

Depression is a serious condition that affects mood, thoughts, and behavior, but it's treatable. It can bring sadness, anxiety, and loss of interest, harming life, work, relationships, and health, too.

Bipolar Disorder

Bipolar disorder, including Bipolar I and the milder Bipolar II, brings intense mood swings that may disrupt daily life. Supportive psychotherapy and medication can help manage symptoms.

Anxiety

Anxiety is a feeling of fear, dread, and uneasiness that can leave you restless and tense. It may cause racing thoughts, trouble concentrating, and disrupted sleep; it can be understood and treated.

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

PTSD involves intrusive thoughts, feelings, and dreams long after trauma. You may relive events via flashbacks or nightmares, feel fear or anger, detach or dissociate, and feel estranged or unsafe.

Trauma/Difficult History

Trauma arises from exposure to distressing or life-threatening events. Its impact can linger, affecting mental, physical, social, and emotional well-being, and influencing daily functioning in lasting ways.

Self Esteem

Low self-esteem can deeply affect quality of life. Constant self-criticism and negative self-talk often fuel anxiety, sadness, depression, anger, shame, or guilt, making daily life more difficult.

Couples, Marriage Counseling

Couples therapy supports partners in addressing conflict and rebuilding connection. It fosters healthier communication where it has broken down and helps restore openness, trust, and stronger relationship functioning.

Family Therapy

Family therapy helps families improve communication and resolve conflict with a therapist’s guidance. It surfaces long-standing patterns, builds healthier boundaries, and strengthens trust at home.

WHAT OUR CLIENTS SAY

Real Stories Of Healing, Growth, And Renewed Connection

WHY CHOOSE US

Compassionate Care And Trusted Expertise

1

Experienced Team

Our licensed therapists bring decades of combined expertise to guide you with confidence and care.

2

Compassionate Support

We create a warm, non-judgmental space where you can feel heard and understood.

3

Personalized Approach

Every session is tailored to your unique needs, goals, and pace.

Flexible Options

In-person and telehealth sessions make therapy accessible and convenient for you.

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    We’re licensed psychotherapists, some with 30+ years’ experience, treating a wide range of concerns. We specialize in depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, self-esteem, and childhood-origin issues, plus premarital, couples, and family counseling.

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